In this workshop we’ll explore what it means to be in a Conscious, Organic, Committed, Open (COCO) relationship.

Whether you have been happily and monogamously married for decades, or are considering entering a new polycule, this workshop will help you develop the communication skills you need to ensure everyone feels like their desires and boundaries are being honored. I will provide practical tools you can implement with your lovers, family and friends so that you and the people you love can experience more nourishing intimacy and a sense of belonging. I’ll share metaphors, stories and a wealth of personal experience to help you navigate relationships based in authenticity, freedom, safety and love. 

In this workshop I’ll be answering some of the big questions that often come up in our quest for belonging. Why is it an art, not a science? What are the pathways we can take toward belonging when we’re feeling lonely and/or disconnected? Why are courage and worthiness required, and how can fear and shame help us navigate our way toward community and connection? What should we do when we feel stuck?

I’ll be sharing some practical steps you can take in moments of separation, from small somatic experiences that can be done in a couple of seconds, to major transitions that will transform your life. We’ll explore the ways authenticity, intimacy, somatics and magick can lead you to a life you truly love and a felt sense of belonging--in yourself, your relationships, and your place in the world.